Hug Someone Today
If you get the chance to give someone a hug today, please... take it....
With all of the over-stimulated parts of our body, the hug-region as I like to call it... gets little attention sometimes. Being the emotionally in-tune human being I am, I really want to call attention to a form of touch that shares much more than expected.
Women: Have you ever been in a relationship where you felt "worn out" sexually, as if the only place your partner seemed to navigate to was your genitals...??????
Men: Does it seem like something's missing between you and your partner, like making love is more a sex-act than a time to be close with someone you love?
THE ANSWER: Hugs
Its the quintessential cuddling move that starts any relationship's period of being comfortable with their partner. Unfortuantely, the societal measure of comfortable is sex... (i.e. I'm close enough to my partner that we can have sex...) Let's kick is back a few notches and enjoy holding that special someone so close that you can feel their breathe on the side of your neck.
Tonight... my homework for all my readers is:
If someone is in the bed with you tonight, before or after sex or even in the absence of sex, lay facing each other.. guy on the left, girl on the right... guys put your left arm underneath the people that you're going to share... girls, cuddle close, putting your left leg snug in between your partners... laying a little lower then him, put your right arm underneath his "pillow arm" and then... really hold each other close... as close as you can get... so that there's absolutely NO SPACE between you... SQUEEZE and then SQUEEZE some more... then gently let go and see where each other's body falls comfortably...
Devote at least 10 minutes to cuddling (minimum) just in case one of the two gets fidgity, but maybe increase that to 20 minutes... 20 is optimal for real bonding :)
Enjoy cuddling tonight and remember... try a hug after every kiss and especially just before going to bed at night...
Peace.
With all of the over-stimulated parts of our body, the hug-region as I like to call it... gets little attention sometimes. Being the emotionally in-tune human being I am, I really want to call attention to a form of touch that shares much more than expected.
Women: Have you ever been in a relationship where you felt "worn out" sexually, as if the only place your partner seemed to navigate to was your genitals...??????
Men: Does it seem like something's missing between you and your partner, like making love is more a sex-act than a time to be close with someone you love?
THE ANSWER: Hugs
Its the quintessential cuddling move that starts any relationship's period of being comfortable with their partner. Unfortuantely, the societal measure of comfortable is sex... (i.e. I'm close enough to my partner that we can have sex...) Let's kick is back a few notches and enjoy holding that special someone so close that you can feel their breathe on the side of your neck.
Tonight... my homework for all my readers is:
If someone is in the bed with you tonight, before or after sex or even in the absence of sex, lay facing each other.. guy on the left, girl on the right... guys put your left arm underneath the people that you're going to share... girls, cuddle close, putting your left leg snug in between your partners... laying a little lower then him, put your right arm underneath his "pillow arm" and then... really hold each other close... as close as you can get... so that there's absolutely NO SPACE between you... SQUEEZE and then SQUEEZE some more... then gently let go and see where each other's body falls comfortably...
Devote at least 10 minutes to cuddling (minimum) just in case one of the two gets fidgity, but maybe increase that to 20 minutes... 20 is optimal for real bonding :)
Enjoy cuddling tonight and remember... try a hug after every kiss and especially just before going to bed at night...
Peace.
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